{"id":8482,"date":"2022-12-26T03:31:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T10:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/?p=8482"},"modified":"2023-03-03T04:52:19","modified_gmt":"2023-03-03T11:52:19","slug":"build-interview-rapport","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/build-interview-rapport\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be Likeable in an Interview: 8 Ways to Build Rapport"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Are you preparing for an upcoming interview? Congratulations! You&#8217;ve most likely put in a lot of effort to get to this point. Now that you&#8217;re getting ready for your interview, you might wonder how to make the discussion less awkward and more enjoyable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While it might seem like the interviewer has all of the control, you have a part to play in how the interview flows as well. Since this is your first opportunity to truly interact with anyone from the company, it&#8217;s an excellent opportunity to <strong>begin building relationships<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And the better the rapport is during the interview, the easier it will be for the hiring manager to picture you on the team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Building Rapport During Your Interview<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Building rapport is the art of having a harmonious relationship where the conversation flows easily. Helping to create that kind of interaction makes you a memorable candidate that stands out as someone professional and easy to work with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s what you need to know about building rapport during your interview.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Research Thoroughly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you thoroughly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/company-research-guide\/\">researched the company<\/a> and the interviewer? If not, that should be your first step. Building rapport with your interviewer starts long before you walk through the door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people appreciate it when you are interested in them as individuals, so, if you can, try to find out some information about the person interviewing you. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/linkedin-research\/\">LinkedIn is an excellent resource<\/a> for this, as you can usually get a sense of their career journey and what they&#8217;re interested in professionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&#8217;ll be able to <strong>ask more relevant and thoughtful questions<\/strong>, as well as highlight any commonalities you have. Additionally, looking at the company&#8217;s website and social media pages can also give you some insights into the company culture and what they value.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Utilize Open and Friendly Body Language<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>First impressions are everything. When you meet your interviewer, you want to ensure you <strong>come across as confident, professional, and likable<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the easiest ways to do this is to give them a firm handshake, smile, and maintain eye contact throughout the conversation. By making an effort to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/interview-body-language\/\">appear open and friendly<\/a>, you&#8217;ll be more likely to put your interviewer at ease and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/how-to-introduce-yourself-in-a-job-interview\/\">establish a good rapport<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, if you tend to talk more quickly when you&#8217;re nervous, make a concerted effort to speak slowly and clearly. It&#8217;ll help you project confidence and show you&#8217;re comfortable in the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Practice Active Listening<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you consider yourself a good listener? It&#8217;s easy to focus all your energy on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flexjobs.com\/blog\/post\/handling-curveball-interview-questions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">preparing answers to curveball questions<\/a>. If you find that you&#8217;re starting to answer the question before the interviewer has finished asking it, you might need to slow down and practice your active listening skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/what-is-active-listening-heres-why-its-important\/\">Active listening<\/a> is a skill that&#8217;s invaluable in any professional setting, but it&#8217;s vital during an interview. When your interviewer is talking, <strong>give them your full attention and resist the urge to start planning your response<\/strong> in your head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, try to listen to what they&#8217;re saying and ask clarifying questions to understand what they&#8217;re asking. Next, take a conscious breath before answering, so you can slow your response and give a thoughtful answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Create a Conversation<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When answering questions in an interview, it&#8217;s crucial to sound friendly, conversational, and enthusiastic. You don&#8217;t want to regurgitate the information they already have from your resume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, use this opportunity to elaborate on your skills and experience, giving the interviewer a better sense of who you are. While you want to be mindful of the time and keep your answer targeted, you can expand it a bit to <strong>provide context around your answers<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, if you&#8217;re asked about your favorite role and why, you might answer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I would have to say my favorite role was my first role out of college. I worked for a small business as a marketing coordinator.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, you could add more details and context that help them to relate to you better:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I&#8217;ve enjoyed all of the roles I&#8217;ve had so far, but if I had to choose one, I would say my favorite role was my first role out of college. I worked as a marketing coordinator for a small company and loved the creative freedom I had to develop new campaigns.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I enjoyed working with such a close-knit team. Everyone was so supportive and willing to help out, making coming to work every day enjoyable.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Avoid Negative Language<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In any professional setting, it&#8217;s important to avoid using negative language. This is even more true in an interview. You want to come across as someone upbeat and positive, even in difficult situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when asked about past work experiences, <strong>don&#8217;t dwell on your challenges<\/strong>. Instead, focus on how you overcame them and what you learned. By doing so, you&#8217;ll show that you&#8217;re resilient and adaptable, which are two highly valued qualities in any workplace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Be Enthusiastic About the Company and Role<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the best ways to build rapport with your interviewer is to express how excited you are about the company and the role you&#8217;re interviewing for. You&#8217;ll highlight that you&#8217;ve <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/google-for-interview-preparation\/\">done your research<\/a> and are genuinely interested in working for the organization.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you can, mention <strong>what drew you to the company and why you think you&#8217;d be a good fit<\/strong> for the role. As you establish a connection with your interviewer, you&#8217;ll set yourself apart from other candidates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Ask Relevant Questions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you have a list of questions ready to ask the interviewer? To make a good impression, asking thoughtful, relevant questions that show you&#8217;re engaged in the conversation and genuinely interested in the role is essential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, instead of asking self-focused questions about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/how-to-research-find-the-salary-you-deserve\/\">vacation days or salary<\/a>, ask questions that will give you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.job-hunt.org\/how-to-handle-culture-fit-interview-questions\/\">a better sense of the company culture<\/a> or the day-to-day responsibilities of the job. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By asking investigative questions, you&#8217;ll build rapport with your interviewer and get the information you need to decide if the job is right for you. In turn, you&#8217;re <strong>showing the interviewer that you&#8217;re genuinely invested<\/strong> in learning if the role is a great fit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some great questions to ask include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What are the biggest challenges facing this department\/company?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What would you say is the company&#8217;s primary competitive advantage?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What are the essential qualities for success in this role?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Can you give me a brief overview of the team I&#8217;d be working with?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What are some projects I could expect to work on in this role?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Questions like these will help establish a connection with your interviewer and demonstrate that you have the skills and qualities they&#8217;re looking for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Follow Up After the Interview<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you breathe a sigh of relief when you leave an interview and then wait a bit breathlessly for them to reach out? Your rapport and interview work are incomplete until you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flexjobs.com\/blog\/post\/interview-thank-you-not-v2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">follow up to thank the interviewer<\/a> for their time. And it&#8217;s an excellent opportunity to <strong>reiterate your interest in the position and how you would be a valuable asset<\/strong> to the team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A simple thank-you note or email is usually sufficient. Just make sure to personalize it and mention something specific you discussed during the interview. You&#8217;ll create a more lasting impression and stay top of mind as they decide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Relationship-Building During Your Interview<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Building rapport during an interview is essential to landing the job. By following these simple tips, you&#8217;ll be able to <strong>establish a connection with your interviewer<\/strong> and demonstrate that you&#8217;re the right candidate for the role.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bonding with an interviewer can give you a big advantage in the hiring process. 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